Popular Nigerian DJ and billionaire heiress, DJ Cuppy, is once again at the centre of online buzz—this time for sharing controversial relationship advice targeted at women.
In a now-viral Snapchat post, Cuppy highlighted a passage from a book warning women about the potential consequences of getting intimate too early in a relationship. The excerpt read:
“Once you meet a man and release your body to him for the first time, you have already reduced your chances of getting a good relationship… It’s now only a fifty-fifty chance.”
The passage also cautioned women against visiting places like hotel rooms, parking lots, or secluded areas if they wish to avoid unwanted intimacy, suggesting such environments blur boundaries and weaken a woman’s leverage in a new relationship.
Social media exploded with mixed reactions:
- “This might look like cruise but it definitely inspired a young lady tonight.”
- “Y’all might say she’s doing too much and seeking validation but everything in that note is 💯 valid.”
- “There’s scarcity of husband material everywhere — even the rich are affected.”
- “Everyday man, man, man… must you have a man?”
- “True. Believe it or not.”
While some praised the advice as timely and empowering, others criticized it as outdated, patriarchal, and placing too much responsibility on women in relationship dynamics.
The post adds to DJ Cuppy’s growing reputation as a voice in social conversations beyond music, though not without controversy.
